It’s that time of the year again. A time when couples around the world come together to celebrate their love, passion, and commitment. Yes, you guessed it! It’s Steak and BJ Day, the annual holiday that has become increasingly popular over the last few years. And why not? What’s not to love about a special day that dedicated to two of life’s most cherished indulgences: steak and oral pleasure?
In this guide, I’m sharing some creative ideas to help you and your partner celebrate this unique day in style. Whether you’re looking for the perfect romantic meal or just want to do something special to show your love, this guide will have you covered. So, let’s get started!
What is Steak and BJ Day?
Steak and BJ Day is an unofficial holiday celebrated every year on March 14th. It is dedicated to celebrating love and passion between couples by encouraging them to both make and receive a special treat.
The day allows for couples to go the extra mile to express their feelings for one another. The premise of the holiday is that each partner gives the other what they enjoy the most – steak for him, and a blowjob for her.
- For steaks, many different cuts are acceptable – from filet mignon to ribeye – being sure to choose something special to make it extra meaningful. For guys, it’s suggested that you reach out with your credit card and splurge on premium cuts of meat or a dinner out at your favorite steakhouse.
- For ladies giving a BJ (blowjob), different techniques may be used depending on personal enjoyment but the goal is always clear: make sure he has an amazing time! Experiencing pleasure together can really bring couples closer, allowing them both to experience joy.
It’s important to note that not all couples celebrate Steak and BJ Day; it depends on what each couple wants or discusses together regarding their own boundaries in intimacy; however, some view the day as a chance for couples to reconnect and give each other something special in return for their love and loyalty throughout the year.
History of Steak and BJ Day
Steak and BJ Day, also known as “Steak and Blowjob Day,” is an informal holiday celebrated in the United States, Australia and some other countries, especially those with strong anglophone cultures. It is held exactly one month after Valentine’s Day on March 14th.
Steak and BJ day was created by Tom Birdsey as a joke in 2001, with the purpose of making up for Valentine’s Day being traditionally celebrated as a holiday devoted to women.
The purpose of Steak and BJ day is to provide men with an opportunity to show appreciation for all that their girlfriends or wives do for them. It encourages men to take the time out of their busy schedules to treat their partners with a romantic evening that includes steak dinner – traditionally one of the most popular foods associated with romance – accompanied by a well-deserved massage or blow job (although this second component is very often dispensed in favour of more traditional practices). The originator advocates that these components should be provided by someone else than the recipient, if possible, providing maximum relaxation.
Alternatively, some couples like to substitute other activities for the “BJ” component, such as:
- Board games
- Video games
So there are no limits to creative solutions!
Planning for a Sizzling Celebration
As the snow melts and the weather warms, Spring brings us Steak and BJ Day – a special holiday for couples that’s celebrated on March 14th every year. Whether you’re a veteran of the holiday or it’s your first time, I’m here to guide you in planning a sizzling celebration.
In this post, I’ll discuss all the elements of planning a memorable Steak and BJ Day celebration, from setting the scene to exchanging gifts. So grab your steak and let’s get started!
Decorating your home
When you’re planning a sizzling celebration, decorating your home should be an integral part of the plan. After all, presentation is key for making an occasion special. Whether your party includes a set menu or is more relaxed with hors d’oeuvres and cocktails, setting the scene and setting out the invitation can easily transport your guests into a Valentine’s Day-style celebration for Steak and BJ Day – even if that’s not quite what it is!
Using elements such as lighting can completely change the atmosphere of a room and create a welcoming atmosphere for visitors. Whether you choose twinkly candles, soft lamplight, or a romantic indoor fire pit somewhere in the home to gather around -– appropriate decorations will help guests to feel comfortable and inspired to enjoy the festivities with you.
It’s also fun to bring out traditional dishes that will add color while still coordinating with existing accessories in your space – perhaps even using some Steak and BJ themed dinnerware or tablecloths! If there are any gifts involved (such as presents for specific couples), these too can be aesthetically pleasing additions either placed on specific tables or chairs – or even hung up on walls as decorations!
Picking out the perfect meal
It’s Steak and BJ Day and you want to make all your special someone’s dreams come true. Picking out the perfect meal for this special occasion can be both exciting and overwhelming! The key is to find a steak that will tantalize their taste buds and complement your other culinary offerings.
Start by selecting a high-quality cut of meat. For example, a ribeye steak is tender, juicy, and flavorful, making it an excellent choice for Steak and BJ Day. Be sure to purchase steak from a trusted butcher or grocery store that sells only fresh cuts of meat.
Next, consider the type of marinade or rub you’d like to use on the steak. Experimenting with various combinations of herbs, spices, citrus zests, garlic powder, chili pepper flakes can help bring out the distinctive flavor in each cut of meat. For sweeter notes, you may wish to try adding honey or maple syrup to the marinade mixture before applying it to your steak(s).
Finally, don’t forget sides! Whether you go for classic favorites like mashed potatoes or French fries or something new like steamed asparagus or grilled asparagus salpicon – tasty accompaniments make all the difference for Steak and BJ Day celebrations! This is also where planning ahead comes in handy – if you’ve left enough room in the budget for extra ingredients (or alternatively frozen pre-made dishes from the grocery store), acquiring sides that pair well with your chosen entrée won’t be an issue at all! So make sure to think about sides before shopping for everything else – because no one wants their night ruined by forgotten food items on such an important night as this one!
Creating a special playlist
Creating a special playlist for your Steak and BJ Day celebration is an easy (and free) way to set the mood. Choose your favorite love songs and ones that you both can relate to, so the music acts as a background for your celebration. Of course, nothing says romance like a slow dance in the middle of your living room and some classic love songs should make their way onto your playlist, too!
You can also choose classics that match the steamy holiday vibe. Add some slow jams from smooth R&B artists or add a little funk to your night by adding some old school soul tunes! Once you’ve decided on a theme for your playlist, you can start creating it using streaming services like Spotify or Apple Music. You can also search online for free downloads that match what you’re looking for—it doesn’t get any easier than that!
Be sure to add plenty of ballads to accompany your meal – after all, this is a day meant for getting close, not just eating steak (although we recommend enjoying both). Put together something versatile enough to take both of you from dinner into dessert… if you know what we mean! Give each other massages before dinner as long as there are no burnt steaks or crusty rolls in sight. Let the romantic music play throughout the night and keep each other warm with stories of old times and fantasies of what-ifs. No matter how mundane this day may seem at first glance, it presents endless possibilities if enjoyed together with thoughtfulness and enthusiasm!
Making it Memorable
Steak and BJ Day is a special time of year that couples everywhere look forward to. But why not make it extra special? You can take your celebrations to the next level by getting creative and personalizing your celebration. Whether you’re looking for a romantic gesture or something fun and funny, there are plenty of options to make this day memorable. Here are some ideas to get you started:
- Plan a romantic dinner at a fancy restaurant.
- Buy a special gift for your partner.
- Create a memorable scavenger hunt.
- Write a heartfelt love letter.
- Send your partner a bouquet of flowers.
- Go on a special weekend getaway.
- Plan a fun night out on the town.
- Create a creative photo album.
- Make a special dessert for your partner.
- Plan a surprise picnic in the park.
Gifting ideas
The possibilities for gift ideas for Steak and BJ Day are truly endless! Whether you and your significant other are well-seasoned veterans of Steak and BJ Day or this is your first time celebrating, there’s something out there to please everyone. Here are some of our favorite gifting options:
- Yours ‘n Mine Steak & BJ Apron Set: What better way to commemorate the day than having matching aprons to prepare steak and a side dish? Whether it’s preparing dinner at home or away at a vacation rental, make sure to represent with these humorous but practical aprons. Plus, its strong S&B branding will get you some knowing smiles wherever you go.
- Steak & BJ Day T-shirt: Shirts with funny slogans or brash graphics never fail to put a smile on your face when you put them on. Whether it’s getting cozy in bed or having friends over for drinks in the backyard, this is an easy yet thoughtful way to make an impression. If stylish self-promotion is what you’re looking for, this is it!
- Steaks from Your Local Butcher: Since beef is such an integral part of any steak dinner, what better treat than prepping up a pair of quality dry aged steaks from your local butcher? This way, you can ensure that no detail has been overlooked when it comes to delivering the best quality. Alternatively, maybe lay down some marinades over night in readiness before setting off to buy come morning because nothing beats freshness!
- Sexy Bacon Brownies: The ultimate sweet treat that stands perfectly between meaty decadence and dessert deliciousness! Deliciously baked brownies topped with crunchy bacon strips make for sinfully indulgent snack that’s sure bring plenty more ‘mmmmms’ during the evening.
Creative activities
If you’re looking for ideas to make Steak and BJ Day truly memorable, then consider some of these creative activities you could do together. After all, this day is all about spending quality time with your special someone!
You could think about learning something new. Could it be a language? A dance form? Perhaps strengthening the connection via a cooking class? Whichever it might be, pick something that provides an opportunity to do something together and make memories in the process.
If there’s no class nearby that piques your interest, why not create your own adventure? Spend some time planning a date night that celebrates anything and everything related to Steak and BJ day – such as beginning the evening at a local steakhouse followed by getting hands on at an ice cream parlor! Let the inner child in you take over as you choose flavors and topping combinations based on how much you two like them!
Finally, if creative pursuits are not what either of you have in mind for Steak & BJ Day, think about simply spending time outdoors. Take a picnic basket out for a romantic lunch or dinner. There couldn’t be anything better that enjoying good food in nature’s lap! Or try renting boats or bicycles from nearby hire services – both can provide great bonding experiences like nothing else does.
Whatever activity you choose for this special day, remember to take lots of pictures throughout, for lasting memories down the road.
Fun conversation starters
To make your Steak and BJ Day celebration even more special, why not use some ice-breakers to start the evening off with some fun conversations? Whether you’re talking up a storm at the dinner table or swapping stories over a glass of wine, it’s important to make sure everyone feels comfortable. Here are some ideas for getting the conversation rolling:
- Talk about your favorite steakhouse in town – what makes it so special? What dishes do you always order there? Have any of you been to any Steak and BJ Day celebrations before? How did they differ from what you’ve planned? Does anyone have any funny anecdotes in which steak played a part (or wanted to)?
- Dig up some interesting facts on steak– so many people think they already know it all. Do you know where the phrase “well-done” comes from or whether steaks are meant to be seared on either side before they’re cooked through? Turn it into something of a quiz and see who can answer!
- Share your updates on the Facebook page “Steak and BJ Day” –what exciting events have been taking place near you lately? Is anyone planning anything creative for this year’s celebration? It would also be great if each person can come equipped with their own mini Steak & BJ story – from previous years or new ones that happened just this week…
- And most importantly, remember to toast each other with fancy drinks – how do you celebrate Steak & BJ day without a few drinks?! Grab a bottle of excellent red wine, craft beer or an individual cocktail for everyone.
Spreading the Love
Steak and BJ Day is one of the most anticipated holidays of the year – and rightfully so! This holiday gives couples the perfect excuse to break out of the typical date night routine and jump into something a bit more exciting. Whether it’s a romantic dinner for two followed by a night of passion or something wilder, Steak and BJ Day definitely brings a sizzle to the air.
Let’s take a closer look at this special holiday and some of the fun ways to celebrate it:
Joining the Steak and BJ Day Facebook group
Have you ever wondered what it feels like to join the exclusive group of people from all over the world who celebrate Steak and BJ Day? If so, then joining the Steak and BJ Day Facebook group is a great way to get started on your journey.
This exclusive online space is a meeting place for those looking to share their favourite stories, tips, recipes and photographs from past celebrations. There’s even an online shop where official Steak and BJ Day apparel can be purchased, such as t-shirts featuring cheeky slogans like “Got Beef?”
In addition to the fun content posted by members daily, there are several discussion threads that cover topics such as:
- Menu planning
- Gift ideas
- Photos taken at past events
- Advice on how to organize your own Steak and BJ Day party
If you’re ready to get involved in or spread some love for this cheeky holiday, then now is the time join hundreds of dedicated members in the official Steak and BJ Day Facebook group. Don’t forget – steak lovers are always welcome!
Wearing a Steak and BJ Day shirt
Wearing a Steak and BJ Day t-shirt is a great way to show your support for the holiday. There are plenty of shirts that reflect the cheeky nature of the occasion and help you spread the love at family gatherings, BBQs and more. Whether you prefer subtle Steak and BJ Day designs or something with a more obvious message, there’s sure to be something for everyone.
One popular design combines the images of a sizzling steak dinner with an illustration of a pair of lips sporting a sly grin. If that style isn’t your cup of tea, fear not! Other creative ideas include an image of someone receiving pleasure in bed alongside text that reads “You’re welcome!” or comical illustrations such as two cows having dinner underneath lettering that reads “Steak Dinner” and “Blow Job – no charge!”
Of course, if you don’t feel comfortable wearing your enthusiasm for Steak and BJ Day on your sleeve (literally!), there are other ways to get in on the fun. Consider carrying around Steak and BJ pins or attach them to bags, backpacks or even hats instead. You can also buy festive mugs with cheeky slogans like “Make My Day Prime Rib Day!”
No matter what kind of apparel or accessory you choose, it’s always fun to wear it proudly in tribute to this outrageous holiday.
Sharing stories on social media
Looking to share the news about Steak and BJ Day with others? Social media is a great way to spread the word about this fun holiday! Whether you want to share Steak and BJ Day gift suggestions, stories from past celebrations, tips on organizing festive occasions or simply mark the day’s significance with friends and family, there are a variety of ways to use social media to shout out your message.
If you’ve written an article or blog post about Steak and BJ Day, why not include a link in your tweet? You could also create images related to the theme—like a “Happy Steak and BJ Day” graphic—and include them in your updates. It’s also fun to post photos of yourself enjoying fancy meals at special occasions or of you (or a friend) wearing Steak and BJ Day t-shirts. Tag friends who might be interested in getting involved so that others may become aware of this unique holiday as well.
Maybe even reach out directly to companies that make high-quality beef products or businesses which manufacture related items like grilling tools that would be useful when cooking the perfect steak dinner. When they respond positively, perhaps they will be willing enough to offer discounts or prizes if you promote their product on social media in exchange for publicizing their involvement with Steak and BJ Day festivities.
However, you choose to make use of social media sites like Facebook, Twitter, Instagram and Tumblr for your personal celebration (or even bigger promotional purposes), why not consider making it part of your sharing plan? Just remember that while humorous content is usually preferred on such platforms, inappropriate language should always be avoided; after all—steaks don’t have mouths!
Conclusion
In conclusion, Steak and BJ Day is a beloved annual holiday that comes with its own unique traditions and rituals. Whether you choose to celebrate with an intimate dinner or a wild pool party, everyone can find a way to honor the spirit of this special holiday.
There are even a number of creative ways to share the love with friends and family, such as custom shirts, cards, and Facebook posts. So, next time Steak and BJ Day rolls around, be sure to whip up a delicious dinner, get your friends together and celebrate in style!
Recap of the guide
Now that you have the complete guide to celebrating Steak and BJ Day, let’s do a quick recap.
- First, understand the history of this holiday. Steak and BJ Day is about expressing love for your significant other in an unexpected way. By celebrating this day every March 14th, couples can regain the romance that might have been lost due to everyday stress.
- Second, plan your celebration. This can be as simple or elaborate as you’d like. Whether it’s an intimate dinner for two or an all-out kitchen rendezvous with cocktails and candles, make sure the steak is done just right and that you’re both snuggled up for some quality cuddle time when it’s over.
- Third, now that you’re well on your way to being champions of Steak and BJ Day 2012, here are a few fun ideas to get you started: Check out Facebook pages dedicated to this special holiday (Steak & BJ day), search online stores for shirts made specifically for the occasion (Steak & BJ Day t-shirt), give yourself a pat on the back (you deserve it!), and most importantly – enjoy one another!
Happy Celebrating!
Final thoughts on Steak and BJ Day
Steak and BJ Day is an exciting time for couples around the world and brings with it an opportunity to have a lot of fun. Couples can add a uniquely personal flair to their celebration by exchanging gifts, going out for a steak dinner, or even purchasing special merchandise like Steak and BJ Day t-shirts.
It’s also important to remember that each individual’s preference should be respected. As you plan your celebration, keep in mind that Steak and BJ Day is ultimately about having a good time together and celebrating the bond between two people. After all, steak and bl…
