You might like to think all of the girls think you’re a macho man at the minute, but you’re probably not. Being a macho man means becoming the ultimate man. You can do absolutely everything, you are strong and intelligent, you literally are everything that a man should be. Now, we know most of you out there wish you were like this, because you know that it’s what all of the females out there are looking for. But not only that, but it’s a massive boost to your own ego to know that you’re considered to be a really manly man. In a world where men now have so many feminine qualities with the way that the care for their looks and behave, we do feel like the macho man is being lost in the world. But so many people have a different view of what it takes to be this manly man, and everyone takes their own routes to get there. But if you know you’re looking for a change at the minute, and you feel like you’ve lost touch with your manhood, then you’re about to read the right article for you. This is not going to be about improving yourself to please others, it’s about improving yourself so that you can finally feel like you’re the person you were always meant to be. Have a read on, and see if we can turn you into that macho man.
The Way You Look
The way you look is going to be very personal to you. You have to admit that we’re not such a judgy society, and you know for a fact that the people around you are going to be judging everything from the clothes you wear, to the way that you smell. But the way that you look should be all about pleasing yourself, not other people, and we know that you will have some insecurities built up inside about it. So, the first thing that we would recommend is getting yourself to the gym. It literally is a man’s playground here, and you can do so much to improve your physique and your confidence within the confines of the gym. We get that it might be hard to get into, but if you really aren’t happy with your body at the minute, then it might be the best thing for you to do! You could get yourself a personal trainer for a few months that could show you the ropes, and then you can go off on your own and improve your body over a period of time. It can be such a good ego boost to know you look good, especially when you start making those gains!
You then need to think about your personal appearance and the way that you care for yourself. We’re not saying that this applies to everyone, because it most definitely doesn’t. But sometimes men can be a little lazy with their appearance and their personal hygiene, yet just like with females, feel so good when they make an effort. Think about getting your hair and beard (if you have one) cut once a week so that you look fresh. A fresh trim really does make you look and feel great! Even if you’re only trying to look good for yourself, maintaining appearances is so important. You also need to think about your fashion as well. Someone who takes pride in the way he look through fashion is such an attractive quality to the opposite sex. We think the macho man dresses smart casual, rather than just being in casual clothes all of the time. Even if it’s just jeans, a nice top, and a nice jacket, it’s better than simple clothes!
What You Do
What you do is going to play a big part in this. Your career is going to be everything to you, and we know your life is going to revolve around it. So think about whether you’re actually happy in your career, and whether it makes you feel like a man. If you’re just pushing paper round your office desk, it can actually be demoralising. If you want a macho man career, there are online electrical engineering courses that you can take to put you towards a more hands on career. Or perhaps you would like something based more around sports? Whatever your likes are in your personal life, you should think about heading that way with your career. There literally is a career out there for all of you men, and a manly career is something that’s much more hands on. Plus, the more hands on you are, the more life skills you’re going to be able to learn along the way, which is something we’ll talk more about later on in the article. Just make sure that whatever you do, you’re doing something that you enjoy. There’s nothing worse than the thought of being tied down to a career that you don’t even find interesting in the slightest, and we wouldn’t want it to happen to you!
The Way You Behave
So some of you might have a completely different view to others of how the macho man should behave. Some of you might think that it involves going to the pub, being rowdy, starting a fight, and beer burping your way home. No no, this is not the macho man. This is the uneducated young man, who hasn’t had the life experiences that the macho man should have. We think the macho man is the perfect mix of being a gentleman, but also being a lad. You have to be involved with the crowd, and you shouldn’t mind being the loudest one in the room. But at the same time, you shouldn’t be the one that’s overbearing and trying to be alpha male all of the time. You should stick to your gentleman roots and do things like hold the door open for people, help elderly people across the road, and do anything that just makes you the good samaritan. You don’t necessarily have to be a really manly man to nail this macho man vibe that we’re going through. Times are changing, and it’s not all about loud lumberjack men dominating wherever they go!
A Carefree Attitude
You definitely have to make sure you have a carefree attitude. How are you ever going to get through life without one. People spend so much time worrying about what other people think, and less time thinking about how they want their life to be. If you focus on having more of a carefree attitude, we promise that your life will change for the better. This is not about trying to be that macho man, it’s about trying to be the person you’ve always wanted to be! If you feel like you’re surrounded by people who are judging your, or you feel like you’re being pressured towards a different life, remove yourself from those people and focus on yourself!
Life Skills
Finally, you need to make sure that you have some life skills to carry you through. The macho man is someone who knows how to do pretty much everything around the home, and everything practical in life. From changing a lightbulb to changing a tire, you should be able to know how to do it all. If you feel like you don’t have many of these skills at the minute, try and learn a few as you go along. The simple things in life that we all should be able to do really aren’t that hard to learn!
