So, you’re single and looking for a wife.
But not just any wife.
You are looking for the ultimate woman — the woman of your dreams, the missing piece to your puzzle, the one who will make everything come together for you … finally.
Okay, that’s a great place to begin.
First off, let’s get one thing out of the way. No one can “complete” you, nor should they. You should be complete as soon as you start this mission to find the girl of your dreams. You should be complete without anyone else. In addition, you should be looking for a woman who is also complete by herself. Together, you’ll make a great team, but it’s important that you’re both able to be your own person when you’re single.
Alright, that’s out of the way. Now, let’s get down to brass tacks.
Below, we’ve compiled a list of strategies to improve your look, lifestyle, habits, and approach to life so that you can nab the woman of your dreams as soon as humanly possible.
Let’s get started! But first, a disclaimer.
The Dating Disclaimer
When you’re dating, there’s something crucial that you must understand as soon as possible: If you are looking for a partner who is absolutely stunning and gorgeous in every way, if you want them to be friendly and smart, witty and sweet, hard-working but down to relax too … you have to realize that that person is out there somewhere looking for the same thing … in you.
This is profound because it means that if you are not finding the person of your dreams, the problem is not them, it’s you.
Far too often, men go looking for attractive women who have their lives organized and together and who enjoy doing the same hobbies, watching the same movies, listening to the same music, and eating the same meals. They want someone with a great sense of humor, who is neat and clean, and has a great job.
That’s great.
But at the same time, these same men do not possess many of these qualities themselves. Perhaps they are particularly messy, or maybe they never work out or eat right and have quite a bit of extra weight on them. Maybe they don’t really take care of themselves and don’t have a job.
If this is the case for you, dating won’t work. You will not find the woman of your dreams. We know this is harsh, but it’s a reality that has to be said. It is absolutely critical that you realize your own flaws and try to take care of any that you foresee hindering your dating success right now — before it’s too late.
This goal will comprise our focus for the following dating success steps:
Step 1: Take a look at yourself in the mirror.
How’s your physique? Are you in shape? Are you at your goal weight? Do you have a healthy BMI?
If not, it’s time to hit the gym and go to the grocery store to get some fruits, vegetables, eggs, lean meats, and healthy fats! Diet and exercise are the best ways to become healthier and more physically attractive.
Step 2: Take a look at your finances.
Even if women aren’t at the point anymore where they are looking for husbands who will make all the income for their households, they’re still looking for someone who’s financially successful.
So how are your finances doing? Do you have a full-time job? Do you enjoy it and get paid well? Do you own a car and a house, and are you paying your mortgage regularly?
Step 3: Take a look at your home.
Whether it’s a house, apartment, or condo, look at the state of your dwelling. How clean is it? Does the style and decor reflect your personality and general attitude about life?
Your dream woman undoubtedly wants a responsible husband who respects himself enough to keep his home clean, organized, and tidy.
Step 4: Take a look at your style and habits.
Finally, let’s talk about the way you dress and act. Women want a husband who dresses with style and one who has hobbies and interests.
For starters, make sure you shower regularly, get consistent haircuts, and dress in a way that suits your body type and personality. It’s good if you read and pay attention to the news regularly to keep your mind sharp and stay “in the know” as well.
You should also have little things about you that make you unique and distinct. Maybe you smoke Qiwi cigarettes or never leave home without a paperback in your pocket. Maybe you dabble in hydroponics or like to refinish furniture. These things set you apart from the crowd and show that you’re interested in the world around you.
While the steps above may seem rather plain and rudimentary, rest assured they are the best approach to self-improvement when it comes to finding the woman of your dreams. Good luck, and happy dating!
