Despite often putting on a brave face, men are sensitive creatures at heart and if they are with a woman that they love, they often devote themselves to her. This is why many men end up so heartbroken and hurt if they split with their partner or find out she has been cheating. Many people instantly think that if someone has cheated in a relationship it was the man. However, this is most certainly not the case as many women have been caught out by their partners after cheating on them.
So, how can you tell if your girlfriend is cheating on you? Well, unless you have conclusive evidence all you can go by are signs that indicate she may be cheating. If her manner has changed in various ways over a relatively short period of time, this could be an indicator that she has someone else.
Some of the signs to look for
There are various signs that your girlfriend may be cheating on your, although you should never make any accusations unless you find out one way or the other. You can speak about the issue or do some further investigations but simply throwing accusations at her would be a mistake, particularly if it turns out that she is not seeing anyone else. Some of the signs that could indicate she is cheating include:
• Loss of interest in intimacy: Make no mistake, there are many different reasons why a woman may go off sex and intimacy with a partner and it does necessarily mean she is cheating. However, coupled with other signs this could be an indication that she is getting her needs fulfilled elsewhere or she feels guilty about being intimate with you because of what she is doing with someone else.
• Suspicious phone calls: Your girlfriend may be getting a lot more phone calls than usual on her mobile phone, which could be another sign that she is seeing someone else. If you are able to access the phone, you can use a reverse phone lookup service to see who has been calling her so often. Take note of whether she leaves the room for certain calls while answering other calls from her friends in front of you, as this could be another indicator.
• Dressing up more: If your partner is usually quite casual and not that big on makeup and hair-styling, look for sudden changes in her appearance. She may start dressing up more, wearing sexy clothes, doling her hair nicely, and wearing more makeup. You may notice her wearing more perfume or a different perfume when she goes out or even when she goes to work. Don’t forget, it could be someone at work that she is cheating with.
• Going out more: Another change to look out for is in terms of her social habits. If your girlfriend suddenly starts going out a lot more and claims she is going out with friends, you may need to do some investigating. This type of sudden change is suspicious, especially if she is really dressed up when she goes out.
So, there are some of the signs that can indicate – but not confirm – that your girlfriend may be cheating on you.
