Whether you realize it or not, the sex toy industry is a billion dollar business model with thousands of sex toys currently circulating through the postal system waiting to reach their forever home.
For the longest time, sex toys have been considered to be entirely a feminine phenomenon.
Countless comedies and dramas on mainstream television have made jokes or alluded to a woman having some mechanical help in her sock drawer, and it seems that nobody bats an eye. Men however deal with stigma surrounding the use of sex toys. It would appear that everyone is willing to accept and understand that just about every guy masturbates, but people have a harder time accepting the fact that they might enjoy using some outside help. Their reasoning for this is pretty shaky and I’ll let you know myself that there’s nothing shameful about making use of a sex toy.
Let’s go over why you have no need to worry about having a sex toy as a man:
It Doesn’t Reflect On Your Sexual Accomplishments
Probably one of the more compelling reasons men shy away from sex toys is that there’s a circulated belief that male masturbators are solely for men who are unable to find partners of their own so they’ve decided to skip the middleman of having to meet partners and relegated themselves to sex toys. That isn’t the case whatsoever. Even the most sexually accomplished of men don’t have sex all day every day, and sometimes even men with more girlfriends than they know what to do with need some personal time. Simply put, there’s nobody out there trying to shame men for masturbating outright, so what’s the issue with upgrading from the hand?
People often say you should buy a good bed because of the amount of time you spend in bed. The same concept can apply to masturbating, if you’re going to do it so often and so regularly, why settle for the old five finger special?
Can Be Safer Long Term Than Using Your Hand
There’s a dreaded condition among men who have masturbated for years at a time known as “death grip syndrome”. In short, death grip is when the penis has been so desensitized through rigorous masturbation that a very tight grip is necessary to reach orgasm. Not only that, people who don’t use lube and frequently use this tight grip might find small bruises on their penis right around where they place certain fingers or the thumb. Using a sex toy means that no one part of the penis will chafe or get too much attention. It also can return the penis to a more healthy level of sensitivity over time if someone has fallen victim to death grip.
Using a sex toy is much safer than your hand if you stop to consider the facts.
They Can Increase Sexual Stamina
Sex toys are a great way to acclimate a man to becoming used to sensations that are more like those felt during sex, resulting in the ability to last longer. Most modern male masturbators are extremely soft and realistic so they’re a much better option than your hand if you’d like to increase your sexual stamina & endurance. Some male sex toys are even explicitly branded as aids to help men who suffer with premature ejaculation to get more habituated to massive amounts of pleasure.
Your Body, Your Rules
Simply put, nobody has any business telling anybody what they can and can’t do in the privacy of their own home. If you as an individual choose to use sex toys to bring your personal intimacy time to the next level there’s no reason why you should let any perceived or real stigma around male sex toys get you down. In a world where there’s much worse things to be up to than using a pocket pussy, it’s hardly something worth losing sleep over.
Final Thoughts
Hopefully this article has helped you to understand that any commonly held beliefs about the negatives of male masturbators aren’t founded in reality. A man isn’t less of a man or less accomplished because he owns one, it’s simply a product that appealed to him so he bought it. People are quickly becoming wise to the fact that having a special toy has more positives than negatives and the least of those negatives should be what other people think.
